Many women spend countless hours trying to impress their man whether it be their husband or boyfriend only to regret the time they spent when it’s time say goodbye to this world. It is then that they wish they had done something more constructive with their lives.

Life is too short to fret over what other people think about you. Such thoughts show that you suffer from an inferiority complex. Questions like what size are my breasts, and what should I wear today are of no value. In the end the result is always the same. There is disagreement and you break up with your so called loved one.

Not to mention the countless hours of stress that are involved in searching for answers to such questions. If you need to impress someone in order for them to like you, then you are walking down the wrong road and it is best you check yourself now before it’s too late. Research shows that women are more likely to suffer from personality changes as compared to men after the breakup of a relationship.

Does this mean you should not care about your dress and the way you look? Absolutely not. Instead, change your perspective. Do not dress for others but for yourself. Learn to value yourself and before taking any step ask yourself Am I doing this for myself or for someone else? If you answer with the later don’t do it. By modeling yourself around another’s wishes you are in fact saying that he is worth more than you. And as we all know No one is worth more than “I.” At the end of the day it’s all about you.

By making this simple change you will see that you experience less stress and anxiety. You will live a happier life. Not only that, doing so will enable you find your true lover. A person who loves you for who you are. One who loves everything about you just the way it is. Not someone who only values objects but values relationships and individuality. Try it. You won’t be sorry.